Planning a wedding alone or with just a few people takes confidence. There is no one other than your partner to back you up and tell you that you are making the right decision. Which for a lot of people is enough, but it never does hurt to have some extra positive feedback for the confidence boost. From the dress, the cake, to choosing the right limo rental northern VA wedding guests can rely on. Don’t let it wear you thin!
Feeling a little hopeless? Write out your accomplishments. You’ve come a long way.
Reach out. Let your partner know that you need more help with planning, ask them to take over a few things or find a close friend that can.
Talk about it. Don’t be scared to let your partner and a friend how you feel. They will have positive views and help you see that.
Turns “I cannot” into productive thoughts. Instead of thinking, “I won’t look good in this dress.”
Think, “Right now, I am feeling self-critical. Maybe I can go to the gym tomorrow or make a point to eat more fruit.” The point being to find a way to make yourself feel better about it, creating an action plan, not wallowing in your misery!
Pretend. Believe you can and you’re halfway there. When Roosevelt said this popular quote he may or may not have realized just how powerful the mind really is. The mind can make the body sick, or heal the body. Smiling even when you don’t feel confident can actually signal your mind that you do and in a since “re-program your mood.”
Feel the vibes. When not feeling your best imagine breathing in good energy from around you and breathing out the bad, let these good vibes cleanse negative thoughts and give you a positive boost for the rest of the day.
You can also feel confident by grabbing a Party bus northern VA can depend on for your after party!
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